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Benjamin Moore solid stain, Central Virginia, garden, Gardening with evergreens, hip replacement, home, landscape renovation, life, Patio renovation, Virginia, Zone 7A
Despite the fact that I was forced into retirement last December due to severe osteoarthritis that gradually settled into both my hips, the needy house and garden projects prevailed.
A year ago, helpers removed three twenty-year old deciduous viburnums and three mature PJM rhododendrons from the front herbaceous borders. They were tired and were plagued annually by either thrips or thinning branches. This renovation also meant rethinking the front foundation bed, which never thrilled me.
Once I had a tabula rasa, with the fine, healthy choices at my local Southern States nursery, three Chindo viburnum, one Liberty holly, and two false cypress went in the front border, which is sloped and facing the road. As I age, I decided to change the landscape to evergreen shrubs that have handsome, glossy leaves, and showy texture. The Liberty holly promises to produce lovely clusters of red berries, but so far, nada. I also discovered “No Float” cypress mulch which, so far, has performed beautifully on the many slopes here.

Two blogs back, I had marvelous help who replaced a 40-YO railroad tie retaining wall, and the nearby peony bed (on the slope from hell) was raked and sodded. Before humidity set in this year, I managed to get the new retaining wall stained with Benjamin Moore’s solid stain in Oxford Brown, and kept the new sod alive through another steamy central Virginia summer.



Just last week when summer finally released her grip, I applied a fresh coat of BM stain on the opposite end of the patio’s 6′ retaining wall and coated an aging 12′ section of privacy fence in the lower corner of the yard. Four additional new evergreen shrubs were added to the front foundation bed and three false cypress were planted in the dark border in the rear yard. All are now freshly mulched (the front with more No Float cypress) and the rear with pine.
Additionally, I washed the house, carport, and garden shed with E-Z House Wash (an annual DIY event) and returned to wash and squeegee all the exterior casement windows. Phew!!! My hips are screaming at me following each task, yet I am pushing to get chores done before my…wait for it…my right hip total replacement on October 24TH!!!!
Thank angels, the young man who installed my patio carpet, turns out to be local, and is willing to help me with remaining garden chores both before and after my surgery…and hopefully next year with mowing.
Just this morning on TV, I heard a woman lamenting the aging process at thirty. I had to laugh, and wanted to message her and say…just wait forty years!!!! I admit, aging is a challenge, and I am not aging gracefully. All my life, until two years ago, I enjoyed being spirited in any activity I chose and my body cooperated. Now it appears, I must pay the piper.
If any reader has experience with joint replacement, do comment and share. I am currently in denial, and push with projects. If I survive this process, at least I may gaze out into my winter landscape and enjoy what I see, and be hopeful for the years ahead. After all, I want to see my new landscape thrive.
Copyright 2022 By Diane LaSauce All Rights Reserved
I’m entering my 6th decade — but my heart, back, and hands are way ahead of me. We have that same conversation. Right now, we live in a one floor private home. At what point do we surrender the yard? Do we live in a building with a terrace and a flowerpot and HOA fees and reassessments? Do we hire a landscaper? Do we buy an RV and drive off in to the sunset? I don’t have any answers, but I do know a few things about puttering. 🙂
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Thank you Kevin. When I bought this property in 2001, I had no idea that I would be here this long and pour so much energy/$$$ into it. Now I need to re-do the initial renovations! As I move into my seventh decade…gulp…I find my body needs major intervention to keep up the pace of this place. Although I find myself eyeing one-level units in small local subdivisions, I just cannot make the leap. This garden and the critters I host here pull at my heartstrings. As long as I can find great orthopedic surgeons who can patch me together for a few more miles, I will probably go out feet first! Diane
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The re-landscaping looks amazing — and I think evergreens are a wonder to have, especially during the winter months. It’s always nice to see some green. Speaking of aging… I’m turning 60 in a few months. While that’s no longer considered “old,” I find that as I age I’m discovering new aches & pains and challenges. Heart disease in my 40s was the start. Now, it’s all about the cracking and creaking as I bend and stand — and the inevitable moan. Arthritis in my thumbs is fun, especially after a day of weeding. Braces give some relief. It’s at times like this I think of Sydney Eddison’s book, “Gardening for a Lifetime.”
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Diane!
I am sad and sorry about your osteoarthritis. I miss seeing you as well as “the best key lime pie on the planet” and pimento cheese! Here’s hoping that your hip replacement went perfectly. Please let me know how you are.
Take care!
Susan Stein
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Beautiful yard! All of your hard work has paid off.
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Thanks Joe. Not in my life plan, and I hope at least it cures my pain. D.
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The changes you’ve made to your gardens & patio are outstanding. I have an 82 yr. old friend who had both hips replaced last year & it worked out well for him. An orthopedic surgeon told me hip replacements are easier than knee for the doctor & patient. I hope everything works out for you,good luck,Joe
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Glad to see you are maintaining tho a bit “laid up”… Old phrase.
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